Want to Fail? Keep Letting Society Decide Your Goals
Let’s start with a gut punch: Most people spend their entire lives chasing goals that aren’t even theirs.
Harsh, but true.
They work jobs they hate, chase “success” defined by someone else, and settle into a life that feels… off. Why? Because they never stopped to ask the most important question:
What do I really want?
If that question makes you squirm, good. It means you’re alive. It means you’re ready to stop going through the motions and start living with intention.
But getting clear on what you want? That’s where the real work begins.
The Trap of Other People’s Dreams
Here’s a hard truth: If you don’t know what you want, the world will decide for you.
Society will tell you to follow the safe path:
Go to college.
Get a good job.
Buy a house.
But here’s the problem with “safe”: It’s usually just a fancy word for stuck.
And when you follow someone else’s blueprint, you end up building a life that feels hollow. Sure, you might check all the boxes, but deep down, you know it’s not YOUR dream you’re living.
Why Clarity Is Your Superpower
Clarity isn’t just about knowing what you want—it’s about cutting through the noise. It’s about saying:
“This is my dream.”
“This is my path.”
“This is what I’m willing to fight for.”
Clarity makes every decision easier. Should you take that job offer? Should you start that business? Should you invest in yourself?
When you’re clear on your goals, the answer becomes obvious. You stop overthinking and start moving.
How to Find Out What You Really Want
Kill the Noise
Spend 10 minutes in silence. No phone, no distractions. Ask yourself: What do I truly want? Write down whatever comes to mind—no judgment, no filters.Define Success on Your Terms
Forget what society says success looks like. Is it freedom? Security? Impact? Write your own definition and make it non-negotiable.Picture Your Perfect Day
Close your eyes and imagine your dream life. Where are you? What are you doing? Who’s with you? Use that vision as your North Star.Take the First Step
Dreams without action are just fantasies. What’s one small step you can take today? Do it before fear talks you out of it.
Why This Matters
This isn’t just about “living your best life.” It’s about creating a life that’s yours. A life where you wake up excited, where every action aligns with your values, and where regret has no room to grow.
But here’s the thing: You don’t get that life by accident. You have to choose it, every single day.
Are You Ready to Build YOUR Dream Life?
If you’ve been stuck chasing someone else’s version of success, now’s the time to stop. Get clear, get focused, and start building something that matters—to you.
Clarity is the ultimate game-changer. Stop living on autopilot and start chasing what’s real. Because here’s the truth:
Your dream life is waiting. The only question is, will you go after it?