Successful Parents Do THIS to Raise Generous Kids
Teaching Your Kids About Giving Back: The Lesson They’ll Never Forget
Hey, it’s your boy Mark Evans DM, and today I want to hit on something real close to my heart—teaching your kids the power of giving back. 🙌 Now, you might think it’s all about dropping a few bucks in a donation jar or paying for someone’s meal at the drive-thru. And yeah, those are great things to do. But the real lesson goes way deeper than that.
They’re Watching You—Every Move You Make
Here’s the truth, Dealmaker: your kids are always watching. They’re soaking up how you act, how you talk, and how you treat others—probably more than you even realize. It’s not about what you say. It’s about what they see.
Now, I’m not saying you’ve gotta be perfect (none of us are). But think about the example you’re setting. You want your kids to grow up understanding the importance of generosity? Then you’ve gotta show them what that looks like, day in and day out.
Why Giving Back Matters
Why does giving back matter so much? Simple—it teaches your kids that it’s not all about them. We live in a world where it’s easy to focus on getting more stuff. But when you teach your kids to give back, you’re showing them that real wealth comes from helping others, not just from stacking up more cash.
Generosity builds character. It teaches responsibility. It creates empathy. And those are lessons that last a lifetime, long after they’ve outgrown their toys and tech gadgets.
How I Teach My Kids About Giving
One thing I love to do with my kids is simple: I pay for the people behind me in drive-thrus. 🥤 It’s not about how much I spend—it could be a couple of bucks for a coffee or a meal. The point is, my kids see that giving can happen anywhere, anytime, and it doesn’t need to be flashy or grand.
They get excited to be part of it. They start looking for opportunities to give back, even in small ways. And that’s the key: making giving back a habit, something that’s part of their lives from an early age.
The Ripple Effect of Giving
What’s cool is that when you start giving back, it creates a ripple effect. You make someone’s day, they might pass it on, and suddenly, your small act of kindness is changing the mood of the entire day for multiple people.
But here’s the thing—giving back isn’t just about making others feel good. It does something to you too. It grounds you. It reminds you that, no matter how successful you are, no matter how much money you make, you have the power to make someone else’s life a little better.
Practical Ways to Get Your Kids Involved
So, how do you start teaching your kids about giving back? Here are a few practical ideas to get you going:
Make Giving a Family Activity: Whether it’s volunteering at a local charity, donating clothes and toys, or paying for someone’s meal, make it something you do together as a family. Let your kids be involved in the decision-making so they feel part of it.
Start a “Giving Jar”: This is an easy one. Set up a jar at home where everyone can drop a few bucks or loose change. Once it fills up, let your kids decide where the money goes—whether it’s buying food for a family in need or donating to a cause they care about.
Teach Them About Time and Energy: Giving isn’t just about money. Teach your kids that they can give their time, energy, and talents to help others. Maybe they help a neighbor with yard work or spend time with someone who needs company.
Lead By Example: At the end of the day, your kids will learn how to give back by watching you. Be generous with your time, your resources, and your kindness. Show them what it looks like to live with an open heart, and they’ll follow.
Final Thoughts
Look, Dealmaker, raising kids who understand the value of giving back isn’t about being perfect or having all the answers. It’s about leading by example and making generosity a part of everyday life. Whether it’s paying for someone’s coffee or spending time helping a neighbor, those small acts leave a lasting impact.
So, if you haven’t started yet, don’t worry—today’s a good day to begin. Find one small way to give back with your kids this week. It’s a habit that’ll stick with them for life, and trust me, you’ll feel the benefits too.
- Mark Evans DM