How to Win in Life, No Matter What Season You’re In
Hey, it’s your boy Mark Evans DM, and today, I want to talk about something real important—winning. 🏆 But here’s the kicker: Winning doesn’t look the same for everyone. You gotta define what winning means for YOU.
The Myth About Winning
People think winning is all about the fancy cars, big houses, or making a million bucks. And don’t get me wrong, those things are great. But winning is personal. It’s different for everybody, depending on the season of life you’re in.
Look, I’ve been through all kinds of seasons. I’ve been broke. I’ve been busy. I’ve been blessed beyond belief. And you know what? Winning looked different in each of those seasons. When I was just starting out, winning was about getting that first deal done, just paying the bills. Later on, it was about buying back my time so I could be with my family more. Now, winning is about creating a legacy, teaching my kids, and helping others succeed.
What Season Are You In?
So, what season are you in right now? 🤔 Are you hustling hard in the early days of your business? Are you balancing work and family life? Or maybe you’re at a point where you’re ready to give back and help others.
No matter where you are, you have to define what winning means for this season. If you’re in the “kids everywhere, no sleep, juggling life” phase, maybe winning is just getting through the day without losing your cool. If you’re scaling your business, winning might mean hiring that new team member or landing a big client.
Get Clear on Your Win
First things first, take 5 minutes today to sit down and figure out what winning looks like for you right now. 📝 Write it down. Don’t just think about it. Make it real by putting it on paper. It could be anything—a new revenue goal, a better work-life balance, or even just finishing a project that’s been on your plate forever.
Next, think about one action you can take this week to get closer to that win. What’s one thing you can do that moves the needle? Maybe it’s making a phone call, setting a meeting, or simply blocking out time for what matters most.
Stop Doing What Doesn’t Work
Here’s where most people mess up: They keep doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results. That’s not how you win, my friend. If what you’re doing isn’t working, change it up. Find a new strategy, a new angle, or a new approach. Don’t stay stuck in a rut just because it feels comfortable.
Work Harder, But Smarter Too
Listen, there’s no shortcut to success. You gotta work hard, but you also gotta work smart. 🧠 If you’re putting in hours but not seeing results, maybe you’re not working on the right things. Focus on the activities that bring you closer to your win. Stop wasting time on things that don’t matter.
Negotiate tougher deals, push yourself harder, and don’t settle for average. You’ve got more in you than you know. So, step it up.
Celebrate Your Wins
Don’t forget to celebrate when you hit those wins, no matter how small. 🎉 Too many people get caught up chasing the next big thing without recognizing what they’ve already achieved. Take a moment to appreciate your progress. Winning isn’t just about the end goal; it’s about the journey, the lessons, and the growth along the way.
Final Thoughts
Winning is a moving target. It changes as you grow, as your priorities shift, and as your seasons change. But here’s the thing—you get to decide what it looks like. Don’t let anyone else tell you what winning should mean for you. Define it, chase it, and when you get there, redefine it and go after the next level.
So, what does winning look like for you today, right now? Figure it out, take action, and go make it happen. You’ve got this, Dealmaker!
- Mark Evans DM